Margaret Louisa (“Peggy”) Baker,
later Farndale
The Story of Peggy Farndale
The Free Spirit
of Audlem
Margaret Louisa Baker was born in Audlem in Cheshire on 24 February 1901.
Her father was Arthur
Baker (1860 to 1916) who was 41 when Margaret was born. Her mother was Marianne
(nee Hall) Baker (1869 to 1908), who was 31 when she was born. Her
grandson, Nigel Farndale, many years later remembered that Peggy would say
“I was born on St Matthias’ Day, you know” and then add with a mischievous grin
and a roll of the eye, “Haven’t a clue who St Matthias was though!”
Margaret had an older sister, Hilda
Marianne Baker, who was born in 1899, so was nearly two years older. Her
younger brother, Geoffrey
Richard Farndale was born in 1904.
In the year that Margaret was born, the
census recorded that the family were living at Swanbach
Villa, Audlem, Cheshire. Arthur Baker was head of the family, aged 41, living
on his own means, with his wife Marianne, aged 31. Living with them were
Hilda Marianne Baker aged 1, Margaret Louisa Baker aged 1 month, and Maude
Whiston, a servant.
Margaret
Baker with Hilda in about 1905 Arthur Baker with Hilda and Margaret in
about 1905 Hilda And Margaret Baker in about 1906 Arthur and Marianne Baker with Margaret and Hilda about
1906
Margaret
Baker
We
have an early letter to Margaret from her mother, Marianne, which must have
been in about 1907 or 1908. Nordrach House at Charterhouse on Mendip was a former
tuberculosis hospital, so she must have been ill when she wrote.
Marianne, died on 16 May 1908 at Swanbach Villa, when Margaret was only seven years old.
What a shock it must have been for the young family to lose their mother so
soon.
Nevertheless, by 1910, there were
garden parties and heaps of tennis going on, as recorded in a card to Kit Lynham, Margaret’s cousin, though Margaret was still
only nine then.
By the 1911 census, the family were
still living at Swanbach Villa, Audlem, Cheshire.
Arthur Baker was head of the family, 51, living on his own means, a widower.
Living with him were Hilda Marian Baker (1899 to 1979), who was 11, Margaret
Louisa Baker, aged 10, Geoffrey Richard Baker (1904 to 1974) aged 6, with Mary
Alice Baker, aged 27, and also a housekeeper and two servants.
Swanbach Villa, Green Lane, Audlem (an early
seventeenth century farmhouse, with nineteenth century additions)
The family later lived at Hillside,
Audlem.
Hillside,
Audlem and
Peggy re-visiting in about 1990
We
have a letter to Margaret and Hilda from her father in perhaps about 1915.
Margaret and the
girl guides Annotated “Margaret Baker – you do look ‘ripping’
ahem! – I sent one to a friend of yours.”
Margaret Baker went to school in
Southampton, leaving there in about 1916.
Tragically, Margaret’s father, Arthur
Baker, died in his sleep in 1916, aged only 57, and was discovered by
Margaret’s brother Geoffrey. Margaret had been to early communion at church
with their housekeeper, Miss Healing. So Margaret, her sister Hilda and younger
brother Geoff, had lost both their parents by that young age. Margaret was only
15 when her father died.
Nigel Farndale, her grandson later
reflected that She must have had a sad childhood, marked by the early deaths
of her parents. Yet, for all her formal upbringing in Cheshire, under the
severe gaze of those she referred to only as “The Aunts”, she developed a
spirit of rebellion, independence, and cheerfulness that was to characterise
her life.
“The Aunts”
The rather eccentric Aunts were known
as the “Miss Bakers” and comprised Henrietta
(known, for some reason, as Aunt Poppie), Charlotte
(Aunt Tottie) and Aunt
Emily. They were all Arthur Baker’s sisters and they lived together at the
Cedars, with Peggy’s equally eccentric Uncle
Dick, a local solicitor, known for his flamboyant fun making of the local
hunt. On the Hall side of her family, there was also Aunt
Catherine (Lynham).
By 1918, despite the challenges of the
last few years, Margaret was a prefect. Her Aunt
Charlotte (“Tottie”) wrote to her on her seventeenth birthday, You do
seem to have plenty of fun what with the games and the Guides. You are an
important lady now being a prefect! It sounds as if it must have something to
do with Rome. Well done getting first in class.
Margaret Baker, head girl at
school (centre right)
Margaret Baker soon became known,
almost always, as ‘Peggy” or “Peggie”. Her second name was Louisa, a widely
used Baker name passing down from Henrietta Louisa Bellyse, the wife of William
Baker the Younger, but she preferred Louise, so when she referred to her
middle name, that is what she used.
Heaps of tennis
A pioneer in a
new age of self expression by women
Peggy at about
18, perhaps in about 1919
Peggy went to a girls’ training
college at Southport and we know that she was there by 1919, and in 1921. We
think that it was here that she qualified as a physical training and English
teacher.
She had the support of the vicar of
Audlem:
We have this letter to Margaret when
she was at training college in Southport from her grandfather, James
Hall in 1919.
She was the physical culture mistress
at Wintersthorpe, Birkdale from September 1920 to
December 1921.
She was a temporary gymnastics and
games mistress at West Bank School, Bideford in March 1923. The West Bank
School, a private school for girls, opened in Lansdowne Terrace, Bideford, in
1896. The school moved to Enderleigh, Abbotsham Road
in 1898 and four years later, moved into West Bank, a newly built house on
Belvoir Road.
Peggy in the
1920s
Peggy with Geoff Baker
We know that Peggy then went to teach
at Malvern Girl’s College (“MGC”) in Malvern. There is also a suggestion
that she went to Monmouth Girl’s College for a time, but this might have been a
reference to Malvern which is relatively close to Monmouth. We are pretty sure
that she was teaching at the college from about 1924 to 1926, but it may have
been for a shorter time. MGC was founded in 1893 by Miss Greenslade and Miss
Poulton, and was first located in College Road. In 1919 they acquired the
Imperial Hotel and in 1934, a major extension including an assembly hall was
built. Barbara Cartland (1901-2000), the novelist, is an alumni of Malvern
Girl’s College, but as she was the same age as Peggy, they probably did not
quite overlap.
These photographs
are labelled “SPTC” and “SPTC Interior” and may have been somewhere where Peggy
taught. The third photograph is obviously of a gym, perhaps where Peggy taught
physical education. The middle photograph may have been the common room.
It was while she was at Malvern that
she became friendly with Grace
Farndale, who was a matron. They used to travel a lot together and Peggy
had a car, which was quite something at the time.
The
photo of four girls balancing is marked “Bakerloo” on the back
A postcard from
Peggy’s collection
Peggy’s grandson, Nigel Farndale later
admired her trend setting spirit. She was, after all, the first of her peers
to have her hair cut short in the flapper style; and the first to buy a car
which she said she never learned to drive properly because, with no other
traffic on the road, there was no need.
Peggy’s car,
bought in Darlington in about 1926, with Grace Farndale in the back seat.
One of “The Aunts”, Catherine
(nee Hall) Lynham wrote in a letter to Peggy in
1927 and commented how you young people rush about in cars astonishes me.
Peggy was a pioneer in a new age of self expression by women. Her grandchildren are in awe at
some photographs of their trend setting Granny, caddying for golf sometime in
the 1920s.
She travelled widely with Grace.
A trip to
Scotland
Skiing
We know that Peggy did not like the
Headmistress at Malvern. Grace and Peggy got so fed up that they decided to go
to Yorkshire and start a chicken farm near to where Grace’s elder sister, Lynn
(nee Farndale) Barker lived, at Scorton, near Richmond.
The
poultry farm at Scorton.
After moving to Yorkshire, Peggy met
Grace’s younger brother Alfred
Farndale.
Peggy Baker became engaged to Alfred
Farndale in 1927.
“The Aunts” felt
protective of Peggy and Catherine (nee Hall) Lynham
wrote in a letter to Peggy in 1927. I was glad to get your letter and to
hear something about Alfred Farndale. Of course I am very pleased to know that
you are happy, but I wish some of us knew the young man. I hope he is really
good enough for you in every way. For you know I think a lot of you and it is a
big thing to get engaged. However I do hope you have acted wisely. You ought to
be able to know your own mind. I am sure you have my hearty congratulations and
I shall look forward to seeing your Alfred. Kit is rather funny about it; she likes
the name Alfred about as much as Edgar or Cyril.
And, in a rather more endearing note
from her Aunt
Poppie on the Baker side (one of the eccentric ‘Miss Bakers”), I am a very poor one to make pretty speeches,
but I can only say dear old Peggy that if you are as happy as I wish you to be,
you will indeed be so, without any more words about it! Knowing what you say
about Alfred (excuse me being so familiar), he sounds very nice and as you are
such a cheeky little woman you will make up for it, if he is, as you say,
rather shy, won’t you? How quickly the years do pass, to be sure; it only seems
the other day since you were a wee child and now you are engaged to be married.
My word it makes one realise what an old woman I must be.
Peggy’s uncle, Colonel
Arthur John Hall also wrote to congratulate her on her engagement, a little
more formally, though he quickly turned the subject to the shooting season.
But Aunt Catherine need not have
worried, and Aunt Poppie was rather nearer to the mark, for the marriage which
would then last sixty years until Alfred died, provided the happy and solid
foundation for the large family which grew from their union. Nigel Farndale
later commented, the story of how she married her war hero and went on to
live the pioneer life in the prairies could have come straight out of a
romantic adventure novel.
A House on the Prairie
Alfred
Farndale, aged 29, the son of Martin Farndale (deceased), married Margaret
Louise Baker, spinster of Leeming Bar daughter of Arthur Baker JP (deceased) at
Bedale Parish Church, on 16 March 1928.
Alfred
and Peggy Baker at their wedding in March 1928. Bedale
Church, December 1986
Bedale
Church in December 1986 Bedale Church interior in 2023
Almost immediately
from their wedding, Peggy and Alfred left
for Western Canada, to join Alfred’s elder
brothers and they took a farm about a hundred miles north of Calgary.
Peggy on the
voyage to Canada shortly after they were married in 1928.
A telegram from
Peggy’s siblings Hilda
Baker and Geoff
Baker
Her
son Martin later recalled that Alfred rented a
section and a half near Huxley some 10 miles north of Trochu and built a house
there. The farm was almost entirely devoted to wheat but with some cattle. I
grew up at the farm and my first memories are of playing on the prairie and
around the slews (a kind of duck pond) near the farm. I remember all the horses
used for farm work, the box waggons with racks, threshing in the fields and the
hot summers. The winters were cold - well below zero, and I remember the horse
drawn sleighs and the bright sun on the snow. I remember the village of Huxley,
the annual sports day, the Legion parade and buying sweets at Miss Hibbs’
store. I remember visits to the neighbours, the Hoggs, the Saggers,
the Morris’, the Wagstaffs, the Millers and I
remember the postman, Mr Hibbs whistling in his buggy as he came up the road to
what is still today called Farndale’s corner. But above all I remember the
family. Uncle Martin and Aunt Ruth lived near Trochu and he spoiled me a lot. Uncle
George was a bachelor, remote and living alone near Three Hills. Aunt Kate was
strict and austere, but kind and she lived between Trochu and Three Hills with
her husband Bill Kinsey and their children George, Alfred and Dorothy. I
remember evening parties and sitting waiting while the grown
ups played bridge. I remember being well looked after by our nannie,
Gladys Grist who later married Aubrey, the son of our nearest neighbour, Ralph
Hogg.
Alfred and Peggy had four children, Martin
Baker Farndale was born in Trochu,
Alberta on 6 January 1929. Marianne
Catherine Farndale (later Shepherd) was born on 30 October 1930 in Trochu. Alfred
Geoffrey Farndale, born in Trochu on
10 April 1932 and Margaret
Lindsey (“Margot”) Farndale (later Atkinson) was born after the family had
returned from Canada at Thornton-le-moor, North Yorkshire on 8 October 1937.
Peggy in Huxley,
Alberta, Canada The house at
Huxley, Alberta
Holidays in the
Rockies and Sylvan lake in about 1934
Alfred and Margaret Farndale, after
emigrating to Canada in March 1928, remained there until 1935. The slump of the
late twenties and early thirties was crippling and the family was forced to
return to England in 1935. Martin Farndale later
recalled But things were not well on the farm. Prices were bad in the slump
years of the early 30s and the weather was unkind so that my father, along with
many others, soon lost all his savings, and in 1935, he decided to return to
England. I remember well the excitement of the farm sale by our white house
with a black roof, on the hill overlooking Huxley. It was early April and it
was cold with snow still on the ground. We spent our last few days in Alberta
with Aunt Grace and Uncle Howard at their Ranch near Huxley and finally caught
the train at Huxley for Edmonton on 9 April 1935.
The return from
Canada
The Matriarch of Gale
Bank
On their return to England Alfred
farmed first at Middleton-One-Row, near Darlington, then at Thornton-le-Moor
until 1940. They then lived in Northallerton until 1943.
My father was working very hard indeed at this
time. It was hard physical graft and very long hours, but there was plenty of
work as farmers grew all they could. Sometimes I went with him and I learnt how
to plough on his Massy-Harris tractor. We once ploughed in one of the fields
from our old farm at Thornton-Le-Moor where I remembered doing some ploughing
with a pair of horses some year before. Frequently on Thursdays I would cycle
out to an agreed point and await my father with his threshing crew to bring the
men their wages. But all this time my
father was trying to get another farm. He went to many, was short listed for
some, and turned others down. I went to some with him at weekends and I
remember sharing is hopes and disappointments. It was a difficult but
exhilarating time. There was not much money, and a lot of hard work. We had
always had a car at this time. We had a 1937 Morris 12 which, in 1942, my
father exchanged for a Standard 12 which he got from our doctor, Doctor Milne.
The 1939 Register recorded the family
living at Sycamore Lodge, Thirsk. Alfred Farndale, born 5 July 1897, was a
farmer (mixed); Margaret Louisa Farndale, born 24 February 1901; Martin, Ann,
Geoff and Margot, and Lerna E Gerrard (later married Hutchinson), single, born
6 February 1918, paid domestic duties.
Peggy was the heart of a happy family.
Martin later recalled about the early days of the Second World War: About
this time there was much going on that I didn’t understand. My mother would
come and sit with me as I went to sleep at night and these moments became
highlights of those days. I adored her, she seemed to understand everything and
she never failed to set my mind at rest whatever my problems. I owe her a great
deal indeed. She ensured that we grew up with balance and understanding of
other people.
Peggy with her
four children
We moved to Gale
Bank on 28 January 1943. I remember it all very well. The furniture van came
and everything was packed up. The rest of us went in our heavily overloaded
Standard 12. I remember it over heating just outside Bedale and my father going
into a farm and helping himself to a bucket of water! I remember our arrival
well, the house, and the buildings were quite empty and we children raced
throughout the empty house. There were strange smells everywhere, particularly
that of smoked bacon, which our predecessors had done for years. We raced
through all the farm buildings which were big and extensive compared to
anything we had known before. It must have been cold in January and apart from
a fire in the drawing room and kitchen in daytime only there was o heat. But I don’t remember it being cold.
With great excitement e all chose our bedrooms and then the furniture van
arrived and we all helped move our things into the house. The beds were made –
the same ones we had got out of that morning in Crosby Road, and we were ready
for bed in our new house. Little did we know what a major step in our lives
this day was to be for us all. Gale Bank was to become our home, and a firm
base for us all, for many years to come.
Throughout the Second World War,
Alfred served as a Special Constable.
We have a record of Peggy’s holiday in
Italy in 1963, with her sister in law, Mary.
We left
Darlington about 2 pm for London on Saturday 15th June. The train was packed
and it was very hot, but we managed to get into a compartment and had it to
ourselves ‘til we reached London at 6:40 pm. We got a room at the Great
Northern. It was rather expensive, but we took it as by the time we had gone
round by taxi seeking something cheaper, it might have cost us a lot more. We
had a very comfortable night and after breakfast had to get our luggage to
Victoria. It was a bit of a scramble with our cases on the Underground, but we
eventually got there by 11.20. We then went for a bus ride around London, had
our lunch, and back to Victoria and met Umberto Skinymo
at 2.00 pm. The train didn't leave for Folkestone ‘til 3.45. We arrived at
Folkestone about 6.00 pm and left by steamer about 7.00 pm and arrived at Boulogne
at 8.30. It was very breezy, but we had a good crossing and felt quite OK.
At Boulogne we
boarded the train for a long journey. We shared a compartment with a young lady
who was going alone to Italy for holidays. We got a bit of sleep and next
morning there were hundreds of people lined up waiting for breakfast. We were
longing for a cup of tea and eventually we got in for a Swiss breakfast of
coffee, rolls and butter and marmalade, very nicely served and well worth
waiting for. We arrived at our hotel in Milan at 2.00 pm, had a wash and change
which we needed after a night on the train, had lunch and then went sightseeing
round Milan in the luxury coach, which was to take us around Italy. We went
into the cathedral, which was very bright, and beautiful. Milan is a very big
place, noted for its grand buildings. We went early to bed that night after dinner
to get some rest.
On Tuesday we
were up at 6:30 am and went out for a walk in Milan before breakfast. We left
at 7.30 in the coach and the first stop was Lake Garda, the largest lake in the
world. We had coffee there and took snaps, after which we left again for
Verona, which is a very old place. We passed by the castle where Mussolini had
his son-in-law put to death. We had lunch at Verona, then went round the shops.
It looked most colourful with all the brightly painted little tables and chairs
and umbrellas. We left Verona and went on to a little place just outside
Venice, where we had dinner and stayed the night. In the evening we went for a
musical gondola ride on the canals, which we all enjoyed very much. Around
Venice the main crops are wheat and grapes. The corn is a rich golden brown and
is being harvested with oxen doing the work of horses. They have 4 oxen in the
harness. They are all a kind of roan in colour and all to be seen everywhere. I
haven't seen any tractors. On Wednesday we went for a general look around
Venice. I saw them making Venetian glass. In the afternoon. Mary and I sat on the Lido eating ice cream
and watching the parade. It was very hot. There are tea gardens everywhere, but
the Italians don't know how to make a good cup of tea.
On Thursday we
left. Pavoda, on the outskirts and Venice, and went
on to Loretta where we had dinner and stayed the night. The cornfields are very
rich golden brown now and they are harvesting everywhere. The women all will
work out in the fields. They wore great big straw hats and their skins are as
brown as the corn. This is a great fruit district too. The farm houses are all
pink in colour against the rich colours of the corn. They make a pretty
picture.
On Friday we
arrived in Rome about 6.30 pm. We were all very tired as it had been a long
journey, and went to bed about 10.00 pm. On Saturday we had breakfast at 8.00 am
and then Umberto told us he was taking us to see the Pope. We went to the
museum first and it was a site never to be forgotten as we walked through those
great halls. The tapestries and paintings are indescribable, but we had an
Italian guide with us who talked too much. It was impossible for anyone to
remember all he was saying and we got rather bored. We all felt we would have
got through quicker without him, but at last we were there. We then went out
into the square in front of the Pope's residence, a very plain looking
building, and after a while he appeared at a window in his white robes. There
were crowds of people in the square waiting to see him. We continued our
sightseeing around Rome ‘til lunchtime and after lunch went out again in the
coach round the city. It is all so big. It was impossible to see it any other
way. There are great squares everywhere with fountains. The police are very
smart, dressed all in white, but there are no lines of traffic as in England
and no speed limit. They just pop about everywhere. There are a lot of very
elegant shops and we were told they were very expensive. On Sunday, Mary and I went
out in the morning. In the afternoon we went to the dark catacombs where we got
cooled down as if in the Underground. As we went along mud lanes in the dark,
except for torches carried by the guides, finally we came to some stone steps
which led up into a beautiful little church and out again into the street. We
got back to the hotel for dinner. Some of our party went to the opera but we
didn't go as it was so warm.
On Monday we left
Rome after breakfast for Naples, which was about 3 hours run. We went again through
a great corn and fruit district, oranges growing by the roadside. We arrived at
Naples in time for lunch, after which we went on again to Sorento. What a
lovely little place. We went round the shops, then had dinner at a restaurant
high up overlooking the Bay, A nice plant place to spend a holiday. We then
rejoined the coach and back to Naples for the night. On Tuesday we left Naples
at 7.30 am. I got the steamer at 8.30 for the Isle of Capri. It was a very hot
day and we enjoyed the sea trip and arrived at Capri at 10.00 am. It is very
beautiful and very romantic here. It has to be seen to be believed. We left
again at. 6.00 pm back to Rome for the night. It had been one of the best days
of our tour. On Wednesday, we left Rome at 7.30 am and arrived at Florence at 6.00
pm after stopping at various places on the way. We stayed the night at Florence
in a hotel which had 2,000 bedrooms and it was full up. We went round next
morning and visited the straw and leather markets. After that we went on again
and arrived at Genoa in time for dinner. We stayed the night there and I left
again at 7.30 next morning for Milan, where we arrived about 12 noon. In Milan
we were to see the wonderful painting of The Last Supper after lunch.
We went to the
station and that was the end of the coach trip. We got the train about 2.30 and
were in the train until we arrived back at Boulogne next morning at 9.00 am. We
had breakfast on the steamer at 10.00 am which was the best meal we had had
since leaving home as it was all English food. We arrived at Folkestone at 12.00,
then had to go through customs, which took some time. At last we got the train and
arrived at Victoria at 3.45 pm. We got a taxi to Kings Cross and got a train at
5.40 which brought us to Saltburn at midnight without changing trains. It was
the end of a very interesting trip which had covered 7,500 miles.
In 1965, she travelled back to Canada.
I left England on the 25th May 1965 on the Empress of Canada and arrived
in Canada on the 1st June. Had a good crossing apart from a little seasickness.
Started the long train journey next day at 1:30. And arrived at Calgary on the
4th June in lovely summer weather. After two weeks with Grace in
Calgary, we went up to Three Hills to see Kate and from
there we all went to. Grace’s Cottage
at Sylvan Lake until the end of August. Went on a trip to British Columbia in
September with Grace. Had
lovely weather. Spent most of the time in Victoria. Wonderful journey back to
Calgary. Through the Rogers Pass. Lovely scenery.
In the following year, 1966, she
travelled to the United States. On 9 February 1966, we left Calgary at
6.30 am on the Greyhound coach. It was a beautiful morning, dark of course.
There was a lot of snow for a few miles. We arrived at Lethbridge at 9.30, our
first stop, and had a cup of tea and ham sandwich. By now we were getting away
from the snow and the fields were almost bare. Roads clean and have all the way
been very straight for miles. At 11.30 am we arrived at a place called Sweet Grass
and had to pass the customs before crossing the border into the United States
and were told that I could not enter the United States without a visa, which we
had both overlooked. However, after we told the officials that I was visiting a
brother, a former senator of Nevada, and who is ill, they phoned Washington and
I was allowed through. At first they told me that the only thing to do was to
return to Calgary and get a visa, which was going to be a great disappointment.
However, everything ended happily and we went on our way.
We got into a lot
of snow again going through Montana and went through a lot of desolate Prairie
country, Not a bit pretty. We arrived at. Butte at 7.00 pm and got a room at
the Grand Hotel. Grace forgot to get her case off the bus
and it was gone on to Las Vegas. On Thursday we got up at 10.00 am after a good
night's rest. We went out and had breakfast and a good look around Butte, which
is a very nice town noted for copper mining. We left Butte at 12.30 and went
through a lot of very rugged country down through Montana. A lot of snow all
the way and mountains each side of the road. At about 3.30, we were into Idaho,
the state. We are getting out of the mountains. Still a lot of snow, but bright
sunshine. We had to wear our sunglasses in the coach. A lot of Hereford cattle
all the way running out into the snow and being fed with hay, hundreds of them.
On Friday, 11th
February, we had a good night's rest at Salt Lake City, where we arrived
midnight last night. Got up at 7.00 am, had breakfast. We got a glimpse of the
beautiful Mormon temple, but you are not allowed inside unless you are a
Mormon. We hadn’t time to go in anyway. We left at 8.00 am for Las Vegas, which
was still more than 400 miles away. We still have mountains on either side of
the road and the ground covered with snow still. Hoping to get out of the snow
at Las Vegas.
The diary ends here.
Alfred
farmed at Gale Bank very successfully until they
retired in 1972.
Peggy and Alfred
(back and Anne and Geoff (front) Margot, Anne and Peggy
Peggy and Alfred retired in 1972 to
Leyburn, where they lived at Highfields, named after the Baker family
home of Highfields at Audlem.
A visit to Highfields – Peggy and family
Peggy and
Alfred’s Golden Wedding, 16 March 1978 - Back row, Geoff, Anne and Martin,
sitting Peggy, Margot and Alfred
Alfred died in 1987 aged 89.
Peggy with her
great grandchildren, Nick and Phil Carlisle in 1991
Peggy’s ninetieth
birthday, 24 February 1991 Margot
Atkinson, Geoff Farndale, Peggy Farndale, Martin Farndale and Anne Shepherd
Peggy Farndale died in Wensleydale on
17 November 1996.
Martin Farndale, her son later
reflected that she is remembered with great love by her family, relatives
and friends as a kind very fair person who took the greatest interest in people
and love children, especially her grandchildren and great grandchildren. They
in return loved her for she was always so very approachable to them all.
Throughout her life she was the focal point of the family and kept them all
informed about each other without any favour. She gave firm advice but weas
always there to listen, and once a decision was made whether she agreed or not,
she always supported those she loved. She played a significant part in local
affairs in Leyburn, and in the Women’s Institute and Luncheon Clubs. She was a
very good organiser. Amongst other things, she was responsible for the street
lights of Wensley. She was one of the first women drivers and started with a
Bull Nose Ford in 1922. She taught each member of her family to drive,
including her husband.
She will be sadly
missed by all who knew her, but she will never be forgotten, because she
devoted her life to the good of those who she knew and had much influence on
them all.
Nigel Farndale, her grandson later
reflected that she lived a wonderfully full, dignified and distinguished
life that spanned, almost exactly, the turbulent twentieth century.
I suppose any
life is the sum of its disparate elements, and those that capture the essence
of Peggy for me are watching her catch falling leaves in the autumn at Gale
Bank ‘for luck’; of her weeping when she played Mahler and Beethoven recordings
when Gran was out round the stock; of her standing somewhat eccentrically in
the smoke of a bonfire because “that’s what we used to do to keep the
mosquitoes of in Canada”; of her ability to recite Shakespeare, Keats and
Sheley from memory; and of her passion for Desert Orchid, the racehorse. The
detail we will probably all remember her for most, though, is her warm chuckle
and the fact that she was never happier than when catching up on, or
disseminating news and gossip about, her children and grandchildren.
Right to the end
she retained her sense of humour. When asked by the welfare inspector if she
was happy at Wensleydale House she said “The nurses are helpful. The food is
good. The beds are comfortable.” Then she turned to Dad and said “There wasn’t
anything else I was supposed to say was there?”
Darlington and
Stockton Times, 7 December 1996
Photographs from the Twenties which
are still to be identified:
OVK and Mary S
“Rossites”
“Up and Down”,
Madge and “Just a wee Trio”
“D.A.D” and “Coll
or Co II”
Hockey Groups and
Buster
“Mary, Nan et
Moi”, “Miss A”, “Billy”, “Nan” and “Moi”
Hope, Buster and
Bunny, SPTC
Homer (and her
puppies?)
Could this be Kit
Lynham wedding to Francis Marshall, a parson?
Peggy’s photos probably in the early
20s:
Annotated on the
reverse: “Geof, Captain Feldon’s Groom, Captain Feldon. Hydraulic won Meyrells Hunt, Farmer’s Race, 1929.”